I said to Nathan this afternoon that I had no idea how parents that don’t have the insider knowledge that I have will get through this. Between getting kids to read ALL of the directions, logging into multiple programs, going back and forth between the Learning Plan and the Google Classroom, etc. all while trying to do my job… I finally had to call it and say no more school work today. The tears and whining were just too much!
That’s not to say today was a complete disaster. It started off fairly well. We started the day with Bible study individually, then took the dogs for a walk. We even tried playing Pooh Sticks on the bridge on the way back.
I had put together a new schedule for them based on the approximate times given in the sample learning plan. Changes will need to be made.
Monkey Boy took it very literally and would rush through a subject so he could play Roblox until the next scheduled time. Unfortunately, that meant he missed a few things because he assumed he knew what he was doing. And of course, when I checked on him and discovered he’d missed an instruction, he would be fighting tears. I finally told him he could go back and do what he missed tomorrow. I have suggested that tomorrow we try working 45 minutes, then 15 minutes of brain break. But not on the computer. We will see if that helps.
As for Squirrel Girl, she asked at the beginning of the day if she could rearrange the schedule. I told her to do whatever order she was most comfortable with. She is using my iPad until we pick up a chrome book from the school on Wednesday. Working in so many different apps, especially ones she’s unfamiliar with, took up a lot of time. She got frustrated that her brother got through his work so much faster. I pointed out that being on a computer helped, as well as him skipping some of the instructions. I actually had to suggest more than once that she take a break. When I finally cut both of them off from school work, she pushed to sit on my lap so we could have a 2-minute hug (she timed it). I know this was her way of dealing with the stress she was feeling. Again, I suggested that we build in brain breaks so she’s not working herself to insanity.
While they each had some difficulty with the directions or technology, I didn’t have to help with the content. I am confident that once we work out the kinks and they get the hang of online learning, they will be mostly independent in their learning.
While trying to keep the kids on track, I also had to do my job. I spent a great deal of my day answering texts and emails from teachers about issues their students were having with technology. I reset passwords, sent step by step directions, created school-wide material, and more.
I tried my best to reassure everyone that it was inevitable that today would be rocky. Today the learning curve was all about technology. Each day should get a little easier. And everyone needs to give each other and themselves a lot of grace.
One of the best parts of my day was getting to have a zoom meeting with my yearbook students. It wasn’t anything formal, just an opportunity to see them and let them know I missed them. This group of kids is truly special and I really hope we will be able to finish out the year and distribute the yearbook these kids worked so hard on.
Later, I dug through the fridge and managed to make a decent dinner, but when I announced that I felt like we’d all had too much screen time for one day and we should play a game after dinner, Monkey Boy had a meltdown saying he never gets to do what he wants to do. This is what happens when he gets too much screen time. His emotions swing from one extreme to the other. Nathan suggested that starting today we put individual electronics away completely (including our phones) from 6-8 and spend time together. We will take turns choosing what we want do together and everyone else has to go along with it. Today I got to choose. I decide to play Skipbo. I won. When we finish playing, MB wanted to have a dance party. So we did that while Squirrel Girl took her shower. And then it was bedtime.
Long, draining day. I hope I’ll be able to sleep tonight. And that tomorrow is a little easier.